All Good Things Come To An End

      This blog started off as a on going project for my sociology class. I'm not gonna lie, I quite frequently complained about having to blog every week, but I continued to blog. Little did I know, I would learn so much about life, and about myself.

     This blog was tedious, but eye opening, and often times therapeutic. Just blogging about heart break or big life changing events helped me a lot. Not to mention it really helped my understanding of sociology in everyday life. It's hard for me to not watch a TV show or movie without noticing something sociological! (Thanks Mr. Loehring)

     All in all, though, I am beyond happy I was able to keep this weekly blog! It is nice to go back and truly be able to see what I have learned and see my progression through life. This blog has been apart of my life for 5 months and I'm glad to have posted a blog every week.

     Thank you for reading about my life and being apart of my world. Signing off for the last time...

-ab(BAE)

Hurt Self-Concept

     It's amazing how one person can affect someone's day, year, or life.
    
     Positively or negatively.

     Sometimes that one person can do both. In one month, they can lift your spirits, make you more confident, and boost your self-concept. The next month, they can ignore you, make you feel insecure, and hurt your self-concept.

     We give certain people so much power to dictate our happiness, when the only person we should worry about making us happy is our self!

     Self-concept should not have to rely on another person to make you happy, make you laugh, or make you smile. You should, make yourself happy, make yourself laugh, make yourself smile. Although one person can hurt you, time goes by and things get better.

     Time heals all wounds.

     Although things seem like they are horrible and that things will never brighten up, they will.

Poverty in America

     Poverty is a relative term. It can be different for many people. Not to mention people in poverty go through different struggles and have different life styles. The poverty line is about $24,000 a year for a family of 4. But, this doesn't take into account, location of cost of living. Someone living in Illinois in "poverty" could be much better off than someone in New York.

     Just because someone is in poverty, does not mean that they are living on the street. A person could have a house and a car, but could be considered to be living in poverty. Many people need more help getting out of poverty but the government can only do so much.

     I think there should be a bigger number of shelters for people to go to, in order to get the supplies they need, or have a roof over their head. Not to mention, some sort of health care to keep everyone in top health.

     What do you think should be done about poverty in America?

-ab(BAE)

Physical Apperance

     Physical apperances, according to sociolgist, can be very inportant in life. Apperances can help with self concept, finding a future husband/wife, it can even help with getting a job! People are often told that "looks don't matter" but to some extent they do. If you look friendly, you are more likely to get approached by people rather than if you have a frown or you look annoyed at the world.

     Physical apperances can also effect out children. It can effect the way they look and how they are treated in the future. It can be a big deal to a kid if they are considered "ugly." It can effect them for the rest of their lives.

      So I'm asking, do you think looks really do matter?

-ab(BAE)

Poverty in Pop

     Many songs that are popular in culture touch on many events that are happening in culture at the time. With that being said, poverty is a common subject amoung pop artist and song writers. Many celebraties have been through hardships before they reach stardom. We listened to songs that dealt with poverty. Some of these songs are "Fast Car" by Tracy Chapman, "Royals" by Lorde, and "Man in the Mirror" by Michael Jackson. Many music artist sing and write about their hardships.

     How do you express your hardships? 

     Have you ever been through any hardships that have changed your life?

-ab(BAE)

Positive Deviance

     Julio Diaz was just having a normal day. He was on his way home after a long day at work and, sticking with tradition, he was going to his favorite diner to eat. As he was getting of the subway train Diaz was face to face with a mugger. The mugger demanded Diaz give him his wallet, so Diaz handed over his wallet and offered the mugger his coat. In a strange  turn of events, Diaz ended up having dinner with his mugger and ended up getting his wallet back! Julio Diaz performed an act called "positive deviance." This is where you break social norms but in a positive way. So instead of trying to fight back against the mugger Diaz stayed calm and was able to make a connection and turn a negative situation into a positive one for both him, and the mugger.

     After reading this, I was told to commit an act of positive deviance. Obviously I trying to get mugged so I could take my mugger out for a nice meal, but I was kind of stuck on what to do. Then I thought even the smallest gestures can be considered positive deviance. Something as small as complimenting someone's shoes, or giving someone a hug can work. Random acts of kindness can brighten anyone's day, including the person committing the act. I love to compliment people. Seeing their faces light up at such a simple statement can really make their day and change their moods.

     Random acts of kindness are qualified as deviance because they are unexpected, and not the societal norm. Most people just keep to themselves and do what they need to do. But stopping every once in a while to make someone's day is a bit unexpected but always appreciated. Although society says that if you break these social norms, you are a deviant, in these cases being a "deviant" is a good thing. Even though you are going against the norms you are positively influencing the community and making an impact on someone.

-ab(BAE)  

Is Violence Glorified?

     In class today, my teacher asked us if we, as honors students, believe our society is "Violent." The answers amongst my peers were mixed. Some thought that our society is violent, some thought it wasn't, and some thought about comparing two different nations and comparing the violence rates of both and finding out that way.

     One of my classmates, who though or society is violent, brought up that almost every movies that was nominated at the Oscars were violent movies. In fact, the night's two big winners, The Revenant and Mad Max: Fury Road, are know as action/violent films. On top of winning multiple awards, they grossed big bucks at the box office.

     In fact, if you were to look up, the most popular movies of all time, a good number of them would be action flicks. Television is the same way. There are shows like American Horror Story, Law and Order: SVU, and Criminal Minds, that make violence, crime and murder "Glorified." These shows are some of the most viewed shows on television.

     When people watch these shows, and movies, do they get a false aspect of Crime and Punishment?

     Do these shows and movies show an accurate portrayal of Crime and Punishment?

     Is violence Glorified, in our opinion?

-ab(BAE)